Transgender dating is something new and exciting, and naturally, many people want to give it a try. Going on transgender dates is a new experience for a lot of people. Thus some of them have no idea how to behave on one. Are they going to say something stupid? Something totally inappropriate? If you are going on a transgender date and you are reading this, you are probably worried about those things, too. But if you show up on time, keep an open mind and are interested in finding a real connection with someone, you will be just fine. But just in case, here are some other devices that will keep you on the right track.
Just be normal
If you are uptight and pretending to be something that you are not, chances are you will blow it. So, just relax and be yourself. Try to be completely normal and avoid uncomfortable questions. That might ruin the vibe. Your mind will probably focus on the fact that you are on an actual TS date, but try to look at her like she is any other girl. Talk about her interests and hobbies. Have you ever been on a date? Then you know what to do.
Have you ever experienced that awkward silence on a first date? It can be so uncomfortable. If neither of you are speaking or make long pauses it can be an unpleasant situation. Keep in mind that you don’t have to talk about quantum physics or meaning of life. You can keep it simple. Cover general topics, talk about pets, sports, horoscope, basically anything as long as it’s fun. Be ready to steer the conversation.
Make sure she feels comfortable
Keep in mind that trans women have it tough. Their daily struggles are nothing compared to yours. They are constantly attacked for their way of life. So if this girl needs anything, it is one night without any pressure or tension. Make sure she feels comfortable and relaxed. This is actually very easy to do. Just keep the conversation light and avoid any trans related subjects. Don’t ask her about any trans issues, because nothing will kill the romance so fast.